43 days to seeing Lucas

Mummy Me
I am 55kg already!
I am so fat
Legs started to swell already
no special cravings
Feel thristy always
Hving difficulties breathing well (especially lying down)

Daddy
He is 68kg or 70kg
A hardworking MAN @ work + A GREAT houseHuSbANd
Lotsa Cravings (seems like pregnant!)
getting fatter too...
Always has to listen to mummy's nonsense

Lucas
He is only 1.7kg
Growing bigger and stronger
Kicking mummy alot
Dont like mummy to sleep on her back
Used to like mummy sleeping on left but now seems like right side is better

SnowBall and Miki
Mummy has no time for us now :(
Miki: getting so skinny and hving skin problem
Snowball: forever cant aim his pee pee well at the newspaper & always get beaten by daddy for that:(

Momo, pepper, sugar (bei and my favourite teddy bearS)
Getting so smelly and dirty...
Daddy and mummy cant sleep without US...

Ah bei is Sick

Ah bei has been coughing so badly at night... raffles medical medicine did not work for him, he told me he needs stronger medicine. Bei and family only likes to go Dr Tan at AMK.... wonder if is really Dr Tan medicine that works or is the mind set that Dr Tan can cure him... hahaha... maybe bei should tell Insight to include Dr Tan under their panel of their company's doctor...

I was sick few weeks back, hving fever ... flu and cough... and now is ah bei turn... haiz, the weather is terrible...

So used to aircon after I am preggy, i suggested to bei that we should off aircon to sleep last night since he is sick and is not good to have aircon.... slept at 9plus without aircon, i woke up at 12mn ALL WET and smelly... could easily scoop my sweat out in between my boobs and my melon... WOKE bei up forgetting that he is sick... haha... ended up with aircon till 7am!!!

Haha, he always pretend to be sick so that he can take my drowsy medicine whenever i am sick..

Sal: B, why u are not going up to sleep yet....

Ah bei: I need to drink water, u go up to sleep 1st since u are sick...

Sal: Ok, u come up quick after u are done ok....

Ah bei: **grin** Ok, in awhile... (as i am walking up to the bedroom, bei will take my flu medicine)

(After 10mins...)

Ah bei: Ehh... u not drowsy ah? (bei's eyes getting smaller... and he smile)

Sal: Ooi... u eat my medicine again AH?

Ah bei: No la.... i feel abit flu also.... (smiling away...)

Sal: Kns....

but now he is really sick and the medicine is not working on him... Insight has made him work too hard... reportSsss after reportsSsss... guess is also the late night work that cause him to fall sick... I am so proud of u, ah bei... JIAYOU ba, Lucas will be proud of u too....

50 days to 17 Nov 2009

50 days more...... We will see Lucas SOON :)


Lucas will be added to Happy World of SANDIES....

Having lotsa mixed feelings, alittle anxious... alittle worried.... alittle scare (operation).... lotsa wondering (How Lucas look like?)...

Have i prepare myself? Have Ah bei prepare himself? We are going to be mummy and daddy... we are both 30 years old but seems like we just got married and still enjoying life together... Lucas will be a added JOY to US... hahaha.... okie he will be something new to me and Ah bei... what if we cant handle Lucas? hmmm.... nah, WE CAN HANDLE LUCAS... cos Lucas is going to be very very good good BOY... hehehe...

Things not done:
1) I havent pack my bag for my delivery
2) I havent wash Lucas clothing...
3) I havent pack Lucas baby stuff...
4) I havent read up enuff abt how to handle baby
5) I hv no idea how breast feeding is like....
6) I hv no idea who can help me after 4 months of maternity leave...
7) I hv not got anything for my 1 month confinement
8) ....... many many more....

I am a confuse mummy.... is all 1st timer mummy like me?

60days counting down

60Days before we see U :)

Who: baby Lucas Tan J. L

When: 17 NOV 2009 @ Mount Elizabeth

How: Caesarean Section

sandy and melon's updates

Ah bei
Still a forever loving husband and a great father to be to baby Lucas :)
I am so so proud of ah bei, at times knowing that he is very stress with reports after reports he is still very patient with all the nonsense i hv created just because I am pregnant (hehehe, wont hv this excuses after 17 Nov 09.....)
I am pregnant but ah bei feels more pregnant then preggy me.... he has so much craving that at times i have to give in to him to eat what he wants to eat....

Me
CONSITIPATION BIG TIME....
Had to sit on the toilet bowl for almost 40mins and poo poo got stuck still didnt want to come out... this is worst then giving birth... never felt so terrible before!!! Even pray to God, "PLS RELEASE MY POO POO..." crying and sweating really like a pig..... went to the gynae the next day and was given a SUPER powerful medicine... after i took the medicine, poo poo was like tap water.... "thanked God for the creation of intelligent human that created such medicine"
I am weighting 53.5kg now at my 30weeks and 4 days prenancy and i looked rounder and uglier now... melon is heavy and cause me to have very painful backache :(
thanks to Lucas but mummy still love you alot...
Oh going mad missing all the food that i shldnt eat.... Salmon Sashimi, chilli, Oyster, shell food, liver.....

Baby Lucas
2 weeks ago he was just 940grams (ard 28weeks of my prenancy) and NOW Lucas is weighting 1.4kg!!! And Lucas has turn and position himself ready for birth... But too bad mummy will deliver you via c-section so u will not have to go thru the suffering with mummy...
Woah, he is really growing fast... Is that "growth spurt" ... hahaha....
I cant wait to see u baby... wonderif u look like me or daddy... hopefully u r as tall as daddy and has daddy's eyes and the rest be like mummy... and have lotsa hair like mummy too... hehehe... baby i love u so so much :O)

The Sandies
We are going for a photo shoot soon...
wonder how it will turn out.... hehehe...

Before and after....

Before I had my Melon....

We could still share 1 Sofa ....
Still the shortest among all but there was no tummy...
We could still stay out late.... and be crazy wanna be students...

NOW.... I look more like a SEALION...

Check out the melon in me....

Yes, I m out of shape.... this was taken 3 months ago... can imagine how big my Melon has develop since....

In FACT,

I am very happy that I finally hv this precious melon... it was not easy, bei and I planned it almost for 1 year and before we gave up... GOD gave us this melon seed... *winks* a melon that is a WELCOME to the family :)

Questions I always ask Ah bei:

1: Bei, I love you... do you love me? Can U say "I Love you to me everyday" (I always have this silly tots of... "wat if this is the last chance u can say "I Love you" to your spouse?)

WHEN WAS YOUR LAST TIME U said "I LOVE U" to your hubby? (me... EVERYDAY=)

2: Bei, if baby is out hor... I am still your number 1 leh... baby comes number 2...

(Bei ask me few days ago... "Ur daddy number 1 or I number 1?... hmm... of cos daddy la, he is my daddy and i love him alot leh...then u comes number 1.1 lah... cos i love u also!!! "Bei: OK, then u are my number 2 also!!!!" ..... Me: " NO!!!! Cannot, ok i give u number 0.9 then my dad comes number 1... u are 1 decimal point more than my daddy ok...") That's how silly I can be...

3: Bei, do i look sexy? U still like my sexy melon body? (Hahaha... )

4: Bei, I can see my own toes and also my little friend... can u help me to check if they are ok? (I even hv problem cutting my own toe nails... haha... )

5: Will I still have bird nest to drink every week after I gave birth? (Bei answered: Yes another type of bird nest is whiter but i need your help!! Hahaha... )

I really felt like a princess with melon at this moment of my life.... and i rank my ah bei 10 over 10 FULL MARKS for begin a SUPER nice hubby and melon to be daddy...

I XOXO you so much ah bei :O)..

I will marry u over and over again each day....

My love message to baby

Dear baby,

I am 6 months 4 days preggy...

baby, mummy's back is so pain and my foot is swelling too... I can feel u kicking more often now and I think u got strong legs like daddy... haha, can't wait to see how u look like :) Guess u will look like daddy alot...

I am now weight 52kg (1st time in my life i am in the 50th range) hopefully I will be back to 40th range once u are born...

Your name might be Kaydon but daddy says neighbour's baby is jaydon so we shld name u another name instead... how about Lucus? Baby, u like Lucus? Mummy want your chinese name to have "le - means Happy in chinese" but daddy says too girly... shld hv some manly name so u will be super MAN... mummy thinks u are man enough... cos mummy always talk crappy stuff and dirty stuff... cos u are in me... and i am manly by now... Hahah.... okie baby, mummy will see u soon in 108days....

Loving u so much...

Mummy and Daddy

Preggy me

Hmmm... I guess i am about 4months + pregnant and still trying to figure out about pregnancy... a little confuse about the actual months of pregnancy in fact... I thought i was actually 5 months preggy... but doc says is only 4months plus.... hmmm...

Aunty didnt visit me...
18 March 2009
(keeping finger cross, aunty dun come pls... bb come...)
Sal: Bei, i think my tummy is rounder hor, i like want to vomit leh.... i think is bb leh... no blood this month leh...
Bei: REALLY!!! but hor U every month, every day also want to vomit 1 ley... and ur tummy is always fat loh.... aiya... wait for few more days then say la.... but really then good la...
Sal: ###**~^^#......
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Found pregnant (using test kit)
19 March 2009(i think... )
Sal: B, i think is really preggy leh... 10days late liao leh....
Bei: ok, later we go and buy test kit....
sal: U buy ok, i shy leh... whahahhha...
bei: Buy 2 la... hahaha... then can really confirm and chop....
(bei bought a cheap cheap 1.. try try 1st... we both didnt expect it was so expensive.... )
SAL: TEST number 1 two lines appear... the 2nd line was very light and cant really confirm leh.... how huh... but i think is bb leh.... very excite hor....
bei: .... i also dun noe leh... i think we buy another kit... this time buy expensive 1....
NEXT day
Sal: TEST number 2 .... +sign appear... I think have liao la... very very clear leh... b,VERY HAPPY leh....
Bei:
Sal: Hey, what kind of expression is that... why no expression....
bei: Of cos happy la... but dun noe hv or not leh.... weekends we go see gynae la... i call my mum 1st....
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Gynae check
10days after 19 march
>>> At Dr Lim TB clinic at Mt E.... same test kit was use... again the sign was very light only... Doc says, yes u r pregnant but to confirm that come back on 4 April to check again....
Sal: huh... then i not pregnant ah?
doc: Yes, u can say u are pregnant but we need a confirmation with stronger +sign...

Sal: B, very sien leh... like that is preggy or not preggy...
Andy: dun noe leh... come back again loh... :O(
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Confirm preggy (found heart beat but doc didnt let us hear the heart beat)
4 April 2009 @ 9AM
SAL: B, wake up liao wake up liao... go see bb
bei: Ok, quick go prepare then go le...
>> anyway, both of us didnt know we can request to hear the heart beat... hmmm doc shld hv ask anyway... 1st time parents shld be curious and excited about hearing heart beat of our little creation....
**** EXTREMELY HAPPY me and ah bei.... ******
Andy: finally my sperm win the war leh.....
..........

Was little head, body and limbs forming (this is just so amazing)
2 May 2009
>>> He/She is so active.... we can see that bb is turning and moving non stop... haha... should be like daddy (just so active...)
....
NUH to check that baby is healthy + 1st HEART BEAT heard
20May 2009
>>> 3 tubes of blood taken...
alittle worry about the pain i have in my "left or right" tummy.. cant recall...
30May 2009 (suppose to visit doc on 6 June... but cant wait so change to a earlier appointment)
>>> doc says is wind in my stomach... means eat too much rubbish that cos wind and maybe i didnt shit enough... hahhaha...
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June, has no gynae visit cos we Kiasu went earlier to double check bb was okie..... June seems a long waiting period before i ca see bb again.... but something exciting found....

1st movement of BB
I felt bb moving.... (wonder was it my own imagination or wat...) but days after days it felt stronger....
There was 1 night, as usual bei fell asleep faster than me...

Sal: B, wake up... feel bb.. i think is bb hand or leg or some parts that is so hard...
bei: **blur blur touching it** ya, is bb... can feel very hard... eh.... dissapear liao leh.... think bb go to bed liao....
Sal: u got feel or not... is bb leh... kick so hard.. think bb angry that i am not sleeping so kick me leh...
bei: orh... ZzzZzzzz....

Waiting for 4 July to come to update on the gender of bb...
>>> My feeling tells me is a Girl.... cos i am still pretty and not ugly... (hahaha)... but sad to say i am getting from S size >>> M size>>> now... L Size PANTIES (ah bei named it Ah ma teh kor)....

sal: B, my panties very tight leh.... very painful... must buy new panties liao....
bei: Aiya, why dun u dun wear panties to work...
Sal: Siao Ah.. like that how can? will catch a cold and people will see my mei mei leh...
bei:
Just cant imaging why ah bei can hv such imagination and suggestion.... that's so my ah bei...

Please Help Feisty Princess Charmaine

Saw this in facebook and my heart sanked.... This little princess Charmaine is only 3years plus and she has been diagnosed with neuroblastoma (4th stage Cancer)... at her age i guess i was running around knowing nothing about what is cancer and what is pain and suffering... there are so much blessing in life that we never know how to cherish and appreciate....

See how pretty and cheerful this little gal is... Why could this happen to such sweet little ones.... go to her blog directly http://ourfeistyprincess.blogspot.com/

When you are at her blog, there are pictures of her after having the chemo and she is still looking so strong and cheerful... doctor has to provide her with morphine to reduce her pain.... even i dont really know her personally, but from the picture you can tell that she is really a brave strong gal.... she was breathing thru a oxygen mask and she even request to have a picture taken with the mask.... i am so proud of you, little Charmaine.... I know God will be there for you :O)

"I pray that Daddy in heaven will take away this terrible monster from this brave strong gal... I pray for strength and painless therapy.. i pray for recovery for little charmaine.... pls heal this little gal and send all your pretty caring angel to her every moment to keep her well again... I pray that charmaine mummy will be strong and have no worries financially.... I pray for help from every source and by word of mouth..... i pray that Charmaine will fight this monster and be up again like any other children in the world.... Amen"

Winning Sperm....

Annoucement of winning the sperm and egg war..... Was wondering when shld i start using the anti stretch mark cream.... so i ask fiona this question over msn...

Moi: Yo, wat brand of anti stratch mark cream u use huh?
Fiona: you mean stretch marks?
Moi: haha... Ya i mean stretch not stratch....
Fiona: hahahahahahahaha....
Fiona: I use palmers
Moi: buy from where huh? Expensive or not?
Fiona: quite, $20+( when to take a picture to show me )

Moi: (Thinking... kns so expensive) when u start to use huh and ot effect meh?
Fiona: I started once i knew i was pregnant... why leh?
Moi: Andy's sperm won the war liao after 9 months of war
Fiona: OMG..... you are pregnant?
Moi: Ehh... i tot i sms u liao
Fiona: NEVER, I AM HAPPY FOR YOU
Moi: y me oso very happy....

In fact i am super happy..... when i knew at 4 weeks i feel like telling the whole world... but u know la... the old wives tales... cannot tell cannot do this cannot eat this and that ..... ok....

After the 2nd confirmation from doctor and was able to heard the heart beat I announce to the whole world... I AM 7 WEEKS PREGNANT !!!!!! at last sperm and egg married each other... ahaha :O)