My melon LUCAS

Pop after 9 months ... my melon has ripe at least... C-section for less than 15mins and Lucas Melon is out and mummy has to suffer for almost 1 whole week of pain and lotsa crying... Daddy has slim down so much becos of running around for errands and helping mummy and lucas....
I am so proud of my DADDY ah bei and he is the world BEST HUBBY and DADDY ! I thanked GOD for Ah bei and Lucas from this day onwards :)

At the operating theatre.... 1st family photo....
mummy is so bloated....

He is just 1 day old (above)

He doesnt cry when he pee and poo...

@ 2 weeks old... now he starts to cry when he pee and poo....

1st family photo at Mount Elizabeth Hospital....



he sleeps just like his daddy :O)

Lucas, Mummy & Daddy seeing u SOON

8 hours to seeing you my baby Lucas!

Are you excited Lucas?

Mummy went to eat last round of steamboat (all the seafood) before going into the hospital.... and now mummy is still clearing up my work before I can go in peace to deliver you later.... daddy is setting up your bedroom and aunty heng (mummy's confinement lady) bed.... Sorry daddy, mummy can't help much now cos i hv unfinish work and mummy feel so stressed :(

Mummy got to be at the Mt Elizabeth hospital at 530AM and Dr Lim Teck Beng will operate mummy at 730AM... I am alittle worried and scare and I guess u fee the same way too... U are going to take the 1st breathe of oxygen all by urself, Lucas ur lungs & body must be strong and U must be a healthy and happy baby okie..... Becos of U, I will be a brave mummy and because of U Daddy will work hard to serve mummy and U.... Please be a nice little boy to both of daddy and mummy.... pls latch well to mummy nipple cos u need mummy's milk to be strong....

Baby Lucas, daddy & mummy cant wait to see u and hold u in our arms.... We pray to God that He wil send all his guardian angel to protect all of us.... and be there for little precious u and mummy and daddy....

Love u so much, from mummy and daddy :O)

2 more days

Wah, counting down is scary and exciting....

*MIXED FEELINGS*

Counting down...

4 DAYS before me and tan join the panda club

keep having nightmare recently about delivery of my melon... didnt sleep well also, keep running to toilet to pee and pee and pee...

hving problem getting up and down from my mattress too (cos no bed frame) and got to wake andy up to push myself up everytime i want to pee...

my ah bei still stressed up with work and can't do much hand over....

same as me, dun noe why recently so much cases to handle and can't rest well in the day got to work thru before 17 nov arrive....

getting alittle break down and stress up :(

I Just a Little Scare and worried

Is either tomorrow or the day after or 17 Nov 09

Pictures of Mummy Me, Daddy Ah bei and Melon Lucas + our favourite MOMO

Courtesy from my dearest fren, Jimmy Lucas http://www.ambellic.com/

For new mummy and daddy

Please Mom and Dad....

My hands are small. I don't mean to spill my milk.
My legs are short -please slow down so I can keep up.
Don't slap my hands when I touch something bright and pretty. I don't understand.
Please look at me when I talk to you. It lets me know you are really listening.
My feelings are tender -don't nag me all day. Let me make mistakes without feeling stupid.
Don't expect the bed I make or the picture I draw to be perfect. Just love me for trying.
Remember, I am a child, not a small adult. Sometimes I don't understand what you're saying. I love you so much. Please love me just for being myself, not just for the things I do.

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4 days or 9 days to seeing LUCAS

4 Days

Means 12 Nov 2009 or 13 Nov 2009

If blood pressure still high

9 Days

Means 17 Nov 2009 (10days before my actual EDD 27 Nov)

If blood pressure goes back to normal

Mummy & Daddy wants to see u so much but not so soon cos we want you to grow bigger and stronger ! Mummy legs and hands are so swollen and numb, can hardly feel painful now cos is too numb.... Daddy still helping mummy to massage legs and hands every night. Now Daddy is SICK and not well... Daddy never likes to see doctor but because of ur arrival he force himself to see doctor and get recover soon! Daddy & mummy cant wait to hug Lucas in his arms :) Lucas pls eat more nutrients from mummy so u will grow bigger and stronger :) God and all the angels is with u and u will be a happy healthy baby :O) Pray that u will like mummies breast milk and mummy will produce more than enough for u so u can beef up when u are out... mummy saw Wendy baby Ethan today at church, he is so chubby and adorable... mummy hope u will be so chubby and adorable too :)

GOD BLESS

us

Sally

Andy

Lucas

GOD HELP us... Make LUCAS GROW GROW GROW...

Mummy
Last week: 58kg
Today: 59.7kg
Gain: 1.7kg

Lucas
Last week 2.4kg
Today: 2.66kg
Gain: 260grams ONLY

Daddy

is

worried

stressed

hungry (smile at least this is his normal self)

My BLOOD PRESSURE SHOT UP from low BLOOD 90 to SUPER HIGH Blood 175, Gynae wanted to admit me earlier to bring out Lucas BUT Lucas havent grown much :( and is not full term yet... i am only on my 36weeks... I am so worried and so not prepare... doctor says my water retention too bad and pressure shoot up way too high... (maybe i havent slept well last night... maybe i ate too salty....)

GOD HELP ME and MAKE LUCAS GROW....

I havent sign up for cord blood, i havent pack my bags to hospital, lucas stuff is not well prepare yet, still tot i can go back office to clear my work, i havent do so many things yet...

LUCAS HANG IN THERE and GOD make my blood pressure down pls...

13 Days to go.... things to bring

I am SO FAT like a Penguin....

Started my maternity leave since Monday and I been rotting at home doing nothing much but rest and rest and chatting with mummies to be in the forum...

Starting to pack my hospital bag now and wonder if I have missed out anything important!

For Mummy Me :
PJ with front button (3 Sets)

Warm Socks (2 Pairs) - To wear in the delivery room.
Nursing Bras (2 Pairs) - For breastfeeding.
Breast / Nursing Pads (A Few Pairs) - For breastfeeding.
Disposable Underwears / Panties (1 pack with 5 panties).
Sanitary / Maternity Pads (1 Pack, 20 pieces)

Slippers (1 Set)
Medala Breast Pump

Toiletries
Toothbrush, Toothpaste & Floss
Glasses
Cosmetics + small mirror
Comb / Hair Brush
Handphone & Charger

Daddy Ah Bei :
Camera, Films & Batteries
Godpa and Godma List - To call to announce the birth of Lucas :)
Money
Admission Form
Infant Carrier

Going Back Home :

Dress For Mummy me -

Clothes For Baby.
Hat, Mittens & Booties For Baby Lucas
Receiving Blanket For Baby Lucas.
Disposable Diapers For Baby Lucas (S size huggies)

Lucas is GROWING bigger

Just went gynae yday and YES Lucas is growing more than me now....

34weeks and 6 days pregnant with my little penguin Lucas :)

17 Days before Lucas arrival

Mummy
since last 2 weeks >>> 57.6
YDay>>> 58kg
Gain>>> 100gram

Lucas
since last 2 weeks >>> 2.1kg
Yday >>> 2.4kg
Gain >>> 300grams

19 days to my due date....

I am so tired... 1 more day to work and I am fully on leave :)

So much unfinish work still... wonder if i can just leave my work and be in peace during my maternity....

I am super tired and ah bei is also super tired with his work.... really pray that Lucas will be a happy and good good baby to Tan's family.... let Lucas be easy to take care and bring no stress to mummy n daddy :)


Is 640pm now and waiting for ah bei to fetch me home.... cant wait to fall asleep in my bed with momo.... super tired today!

Nanny from LSBC

WAH, I found someone from LSBC chinese service that MIGHT be willing to help to take care of Lucas!

Is like God send nanny.....

just that now i hv to convince aunty Kim Lang to say "YES"

She is contemplating if she shld look after baby or shld go out and work... she has 2 kids, 1 primary 3 and 1 primary 6.... and she is now staying at Hougang BUT might move to sengkang...

PLS GOD, pls make her nice and want reasonable rates and importantly love and want to take care of Lucas.... pls let her find a new place nearer to church and nearer to us....

20 Days COUNT DOWN

20days before seeing my small TAN...

I am getting so impatient yet alittle mixed feeling I dont want small tan to come so soon.... I think i will miss spending QUALITY TIME with Big Tan....

if only my stomach has a zipper and I can place small tan in and out of my stomach ... THAT WILL BE SO GREAT!

RULES: Small tan in another room and Me and Big Tan in our own bedroom
pls pls pls... let this happen and i pray hard small tan can cope well in his own bedroom :) havent manage to get my baby monitor yet and wonder if which brand shld i buy still.... counting down 20days seems really fast and i seems prepared yet so not prepare! haiz, hiak hiak... i am starting to worry and get stressed up and panic!

Ok, got to stop here, Lucas is sitting on my pee bag again... Need to pee now... i am like running to toilet every 1 to 30mins... hate peeing at times...

Nanny means $$$

Haiz, still sourcing badly for nanny...

Called a nanny just now just so nice she stays opp my block BUT....

1. I need her in feb and her grandchild is out by april... My question is what if both baby cry? she will definitely attend to her grandchild 1st and not my Lucas....
2. she talks abt $$$ ... says i got to pay her $600 per mth but once Lucas reach 9mths $$ must top up cos of eating solid food.... My question again, how do i noe if my $$ goes to buying lucas food or her grandchild's food?
3. Can she manage both babies?

Guess this nanny above is not an option again :(

FRIDAY at last... 25 days to seeing Lucas :)

Yippeeeeeee.....

Is Friday at last, can spend time with bei doing up Lucas bedroom again...

YES, we have painted Lucas room from pink to BLUE and drew 6 sheep on the wall.... will show u guys the pictures when i download it :O) guess lucas will love his bedroom that mummy and daddy painted :O)

Will see Lucas in 25days... WAH SO FAST....

is 6pm now and bei is coming to fetch his fat clumpsy wife... Cant wait to see ah bei in 10mins...

Will update again soon....

My Ah Bei is Pregnant!

Hiak Hiak.... and i wonder why I do not have much cravings or pregnancy @#*#@...

Bei has more cravings and mood swings than me! Pack of sour plum given by miin and quan is also eaten by bei.... I gain weight and he gain weight too, wonder if i need to pass him my stretch marks lotion. Bei woke up everyday feeling so down and moody and will nag his whole journey to work.... if only he is really the person pregnant i guess that will be so GREAT... hehe :O)

Things I love about pregnancy:

• I dont have menses cramp for 9 months... yooo hooo :P
• I have bird nest to eat
• dont hv to do housework
• bei loves me like princess
• have more excuse to get bei fetch me around to the door step
• can avoid smokers with valid reason
• everyone around me take care of me so much... feel so good leh...
• i hv this very good gal fren "Michelle" she will always buy me breakfast EVERYDAY!

Things I dun enjoy during pregnancy:

• Water retention (so badly that i swell like pig)
• becoming uglier and rounder
• cant hv raw and shell food
• cant jump and run ard like mad
• cant play with snowball n miki
• cant wear HIGH HEELS (I miss my heels so badly :O( )
• cant wear my pretty dress
• panties keep rolling down to the bikini line cos tummy too big liao.... and i refuse to wear ah ma panties....
• contipation (badly.... )

Overall i guess i love pregnancy still just because of LUCAS and AH Bei.... for both of them... anything for me to suffer is ok.... I love U guys so much....

Excitement? Not so.... but worries....

Nanny or Maid? Some question that I am still asking myself? Haiz.... i hate the feeling of asking ard and getting many scary stories abt nanny and maid....

There is so many "IF ONLY" ideas in mind:

• "IF ONLY" i dun hv to work and can take care of Lucas
• "IF ONLY" my mum can help
• "IF ONLY" bei's mum can help
• "IF ONLY" baby dont cry and i can bring him to work
• "IF ONLY" Lucas is pocket size I can pack him in pocket anywhere i go
• "IF ONLY" there is no worries.....

Days are getting closer and I hv no single idea what is like when Lucas is born and if I can manage Lucas and after maternity how and who can help to look after lucas....
Excited or not? Guess I am more worried than excited now.... GOD, take away all my worries and send me guardian angel to help out all my worries....
I was chatting with Bei few days back and was saying.... must save more money, when is still just 2 of us only.. no money can still anyhow eat and stay home dun spend money.... BUT when Lucas comes along.... he hungry means must drink and eat and "IF" he is unwell means must see doctor and the PD is more expensive than adult doctor... the more i think of it the more worries I have now....

How I wish I have a GROWING MONEY PLANT AT HOME!

Nanny or maid?

Interesting write up from "first time mama and papa blog"


Nanny
We all know that it will be great if our baby can be taken care either by ourselves, or someone who we can trust. Such as our parents and etc...

However at times, due to certain circumstances, we have no choice but to pass our baby to someone whom we don't know at all. So, if you are passing your baby to a nanny, here are some questions that you may want to ask before accepting the nanny.

You have to understand that some nannies are very picky, just like you as a parents. You may have your own sets of thinking and the nanny may think otherwise.


I think here are the top 10 questions to ask nanny:

Religion. Many nannies are Taoist. They will have figures at home or they will offer incense sticks and etc. in the morning. Can you accept that? If you can, do you allow your child to see them in action? If not, how?

Food. Have you started your child on solid food? If not, does the nanny agree with you? Many modern parents are into breast feeding or, feeding breast milk to their babies as long as possible. Some of us will wait for the baby to give us signal. Many nannies are under-informed in this area. Is she open minded enough to learn from you?
Weaning: When you start weaning your baby, what kind of food will the nanny prepare? Or once your baby has started on solid food, what kind of food will she prepare?

Vaccination: Have you vaccinated your baby? If not, does the nanny accept that? If she does, how is she going to ensure that your baby does not get infected by others? How about the nanny? Has vaccinated herself against some common diseases? Can you accept that? Also, after vaccination, what is she going to do to ensure your baby is well taken care of if your baby has fever? Some nannies prefer to give panadol first before the baby has fever. Either for prevention sake or, for convenient sake.

Breast feeding: If you fully breast feed baby, does the nanny is willing accept that? Especially if you are going to pass it to her before you break the routine? Some nanny recognize the toughness of taking care a fully breast feed baby.
Family: Who are the members who is going to help her to take care your baby? Her kids? Her hubby? What are the kids' age? If the kids are small and your baby has not get his or her vaccination, your baby will get sick easily. Any smoker in the house? Any elderly in the house? What is the state of health of the elderly?
Equipments: Does the nanny has the necessary equipments to sterilize your bottles? Or, what method do they use to clean your baby stuffs? Boiling water?
Education: Are you going to give the nanny the some dvds/vcds for your baby to watch? Is she or her willing to play the dvds/vcds according to your schedule?
Your family members: Does she allow your family members to visit your baby at her place? Some nannies do not like it. And some family members love to sit at the nanny's house to watch them.

Fees: While, if everything is agreed upon, here's another important question. If you found your nanny through agent, you have to ask the agent upfront. What's the agent fee? Before you get the agent to start searching for you. Let's say he found it, ask him what's the nanny fee? How about solid food? How much does she charge? Also, how much does she charge if you need her to take care of your baby during off duty hours? For example, weekends?

Maid (Indo or Fil)?
Do you need a maid?
When the little one arrives, sometimes it is good to have an extra helping hand. However, do you really need one? This is the advice from a friend of mine. Her name is Emily Quek and she wrote this for everybody in a forum. So all credits go to her.

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Fil or Indon - depends on your needs & preference. Then again, it's about generalisation only... does not necessarily mean 1 nationality better (or worse) than the other. Some pointers (bare in mind some are generalisations):

Indon:
1. Lower salary
2. More hardworking
3. Can take hardship
4. Keen learners (will pick up languages & learn new things)
5. Less likely to 'ask' for things or bargain
6. More willing to accept rules & regulations
7. Better cooks (cos Indon cooking methods more Asian than Fil)
8. Not as prideful & can accept reprimands
9. Not as alert or smart (keen to learn not = to fast learner)
10. Not as clean

Fil:
1. Higher salary
2. Will eat snake when they can (or if u prefer, work 'smart')
3. Not as able to take hardship (turn in early, wake up late, etc)
4. Think highly of themselves (hence, not as receptive to new things, may try to act smart)
5. Know their 'rights' & WILL ask for things or bargain
6. Tend to agree to rules & regulations on the surface, if they do not like it, may not follow lol then got lots to argue later on.
7. More used to using low fire to cook, so not as good a chef as Indons
8. Full of pride & may not take well to being told off (even if they are in the wrong!)
9. More alert & smart (sometimes too smart, so dare to argue, bargain, or DEMAND for things)
10. Supposedly cleaner.

These are just some generalisations. I'm sure there'll be people who can tell you that their Indon maid is very clean or their Fil maid cooks very well.

Then the diff between a brand new (raw) gal & an experienced one are:
1. BN mouldable, not 'infected' by bad habits (though need not mean they dun have any to start with).
2. BN must train from scratch (very tedious).
3. Exp ones can probably start work from day 1, just need to adjust to your preference... but some may be stubborn & stick to old ways too
4. Exp ones know what to expect, so may compare & bargain.
5. BN usually mean have to deal with a certain period of homesickness, esp Fil. Almost guranteed one. If they appear fine, something is definitely WRONG... hahaha..
6. Of course exp ones more expensive than BN ones

Agencies have different packages for girls of different nationalities, whether exp or BN & whether from home country or transfer.

From home country usually means they have existing loans which you probably have to pay up in advance for them (higher start up cost, but eventually deduct from their pay). Transfer should mean less or no more loan to shoulder, could mean just pay agent fee & bring girl home.

I think most important is to get a reliable & trustworthy agent. Bio data for girls are shared & passed around, so does not mean a pricey agency gets the best girls. More important to get a fair agent who understands your needs, so that they can find you the best match... & in times of need, they can counsel your maid for you.

But I always tell my friends (my agent tells me the same thing): think carefully whether you truely need a maid. If not, dun go through the hassle & trouble... if you do, you need to be aware of the possible pitfalls & know how to handle whatever might come out of it...

Just for Laugh....

Saw this from my friend's blog... think is really FUNNY... hehehe

If your father is a poor man,
it is your fate but,
if your father-in-law is a poor man,
it’s your stupidity.

Practice makes perfect…..
But nobody’s perfect……
so why practice?

The more you learn, the more you know,
The more you know, the more you forget
The more you forget, the less you know
So.. why learn.

A bus station is where a bus stops.
A train station is where a train stops.
On my desk, I have a work station….
what more can I say……..

Flying With Baby – Minus The Tears

YES, we are going to PERTH again coming May 2010 BUT it will be without Lucas :O(
and i Wondered if I can stay apart from Lucas for 10 full days.... I miss holiday badly... feeling alittle guilty about booking flights even before the arrival of Lucas....Daddy says u will be ok alone in Singapore with ah ma... keeping my finger cross as we hv not told bei's mum about it yet...

Saw read up about flying with baby.... is interesting...

You don’t have to stop travelling once baby arrives. The keys to enjoying smooth air travel? Proper planning and staying calm.

What’s the best age for air travel?

Baby is never too young to travel, except for his first seven days. In fact, the younger baby is, the more low-maintenance he is.


What medication/immunisations does baby need?

Before international trips, allow four to six weeks to meet with your child’s doctor for advice about medications and immunisations. Keep a copy of your child’s vaccination records on your trip. Avoid giving baby sedatives on long flights as it can have the reverse effect. Sucking on a preferred drink can have the same soothing effect.

Plan-ahead strategies

1.When reserving your flight, say you’re travelling with an infant. Ask for a flight that’s not fully booked and get a front-row seat (for more leg room). Often, these seats are also near the toilets, so you can change baby’s diapers urgently.
2.Book a bassinette for baby to sleep in during the flight.
3.Arrive at the airport early to check in before the queue starts forming.
4.Look for flights that won’t upset your baby’s routine, like night flights or those that coincide with baby’s naptime.
5.If you’re changing planes, ask for a courtesy cart between gates.
What should I take in my hand-carry luggage?

Pack at least two weeks ahead and keep your list in a prominent spot. Choose a bag with a waterproof lining and wide shoulder straps. Keep baby happy onboard with these:
Bibs
Bottles
Bottle of water. Many parents take 1.5 litres of bottled water.
Pre-measured servings of infant formula. Most planes have formula onboard, but supply and brands are limited, so bring your own. Take more than you’ll need on the flight in case of delays.
Bottled baby food or boxed cereal
Feeding spoon
Face cloths (three)
Changing pack comprising five to eight disposable diapers (depending on flight duration), wet wipes, diaper changing cream, tissue, cotton wool and three zip-lock bags (for soiled clothes). This way, you don’t have to take your entire knapsack and baby into the tiny loo.
Two changes of shirt and pants (cotton separates is best for easy changing), in case of spills etc. They also help baby “layer up” if it gets too cold.
Baby wrap, for comfort, to keep warm or to swaddle smaller babies.
Pacifiers, to help soothe an upset baby.
A bag of treats like biscuits, toys or books to distract her. Recommended: anything shiny, mirrors, rattles, light-up musical toys and soft cuddlies.
Baby sling, for smaller babies. It also leaves your hands free for luggage.
A lightweight stroller.
Medicines, especially infant paracetamol for pain and fever relief. Also consider a colic treatment, saline nose drops for stuffy noses and teething gel.
Extra shirt or cardigan for yourself.
A muesli bar and some packed nuts. You may not get the chance to eat your airline meal.
A camera, so you can capture memorable travel moments with baby, especially if it’s her first flight.

In-flight tips

A baby is allowed to sit on your lap until she’s two years old. For long-haul flights, however, book a separate seat so you’ll both be more comfortable.
During landing and take-off, encourage her to have a drink or suck on a pacifier; swallowing relieves ear pressure at high altitudes.
If your baby gets upset, cuddle her and walk along the aisles – it will be less of a problem for baby and you, and other passengers.
If there are rows of spare seats on the flight, asked to be moved.

Which airlines are baby-friendly?
Families travelling with young children are usually invited to board the plane before other passengers, so you have easier access through the plane and time to settle your children in their seats. In general most airlines offer the following to help make travelling with baby easier:

Sky cots. These bassinets are for infants aged up to 12 months and weighing less than 10 kg to 14 kg (check with your airline) not occupying a seat. Available on request, these are fitted after take-off.
Changing table. Most aircrafts have toilets with a pull-down changing table.
Baby items like diapers, creams, powders, wipes, bibs, baby formula and food are available on request, but stock is limited.
If your infant has a separate seat, bring a car seat for her to sit in. But it must have its own built-in restraint system and be approved for use in motor vehicles.
Amenities kits. Many airlines give out kits containing things like talcum powder, wet wipes, bib and toy.
Baby stroller service. You can borrow one free-of -charge from the airport so you won’t have to carry a 10-kg baby and a hand-carry bag all over. Most airports offer this service, but supply is limited.
Twin travel. Inform the airline if you’re travelling alone with two infants, as special arrangements are required, like a child seat.

Miki is getting OLD

My dog Miki is getting so OLD.... she start to scratch herself and cause her skin to bleed so much... end up i have to cone her this way.... poor Miki has to wear the cone for now...

(above is not Miki...)

Haiz, feeling so sad for both Snowball and Miki... i hardly hv the energy to play with them anymore.... sitting down playing with Snowball is not easy especially when he turns violent and starts to jump on me...

Snowball and Miki often gets beaten up by ah bei too for not pee-ing at the wrong spot and barking too much.... at times snowball fur will be wet in the morning cos bei use the mop to hit him....

haiz, think snowball is poor thing and bei also is poor thing now... cos bei needs to help me to clean my dog's poo poo and i know he hates it.... just becos i am so pregnant and cant bend now.. he is un"willing" to help out....

Bei recently ask me.... "can give ur dogs away? I really hate them.... "

I love dogs since young and I am now torned apart btw my dogs and bei.... and i foresee next time bei will use Lucas to send my dogs away... "keeping my finger cross and hope that wont happen"....

People always start giving away their dogs after the baby comes and that goes to my sister too... she gave miki to me after she had her baby.... I dont want that to happen to Snowball or Miki.... I still dun believe that if i have baby I cant have dogs.... i know Lucas will love Miki and Snowball just like i do.... so pls dun take snowball and miki away from me... snowball and miki will stay as long as they are still alive... and I pray that Miki and Snowball will live a strong and healthy life...

See, snowball is so adorable since young.... he is hugging my favourite teddy bear "pepper" to bed.... see his paws is so pinky....


Still remember.... during wedding, i made bei agree that "if he loves me, he must love my dogs" and he did agree with that.... bei, can u keep ur promise pls? Dont take my snowball and miki away pls....

This was taken during a church outing... if i am not wrong is at Wendy's place....

29 days to seeing Lucas

I can hardly walk much :O(


Hands and feet swelling so badly.....


my feet now is so round and can hard stand longer than 5 mins....

My hands are too swell as well... joints are so painful... can hardly hold my toothbrush well.....

I am so HIPPO looking now.... clumpsy but hopefully still sexy in bei's eyes.... Hehehe

32Days to Lucas Arrival

WAH..... Gain SO much weight.... I am 57.6kg!!! (used to be 44kg)

Total weight gain 13.6kg... wonder if i can go back to my original weight ever after birth.... Never felt so fat before... never felt my tights rubbing to each other when walking.... never felt so breathless walking up the stairs before.... Legs and hands swelling badly.... never felt so painful before... For Lucas anything will be bearable....

Lucas is only 2.1kg!!! at last he hit 2kg and above... was so worried if he will be too small... coming 32days I pray that Lucas will grow stronger and bigger :O) Mummy and Daddy cant wait to see u.... SO curious and excited waiting for ur arrival....

36 Days to seeing LUCAS

Cannot IMAGINE that we are going to be daddy and mummy in 36days...

I am enjoying Lucas in me since 18 March 2009. When the 1st time i felt Lucas kicking it was like a butterfly inside me. Is weird hving something kicking inside my tummy but "I am so loving it now"

Thanked GOD that we both are fertile and can bear LUCAS!

Having the tots that I will be operated on my tummy, makes my hair stand and scare.... never been operated since after age 5... haiz, for Lucas sake I will endure and be HAPPY cos i know ah bei will be very happy to see Lucas :O)

but the little me is still very very scared :O( "Help me GOD"

My feet and hands started swelling so much that i can hardly hold even my own toothbrush and can hardly stand to iron more than 3 ah bei shirt...

I feel so FAT and SWOLLEN... boo hoo hoo... i have turn ugly ! *Huang Lian Po me*

Was talking to Lucas yday:

Moi: Lucas ah, can help mummy to drink away all my water? Mummy's hands and leg very painful and swollen u must drink more of what mummy drink ok if not mummy will have water retention leh.... mummy very xinku leh...

Lucas: Kicking (means he understand)

Moi: Bei, can help me to rub my legs and hands... so painful leh....

Bei: Okie, at night i rub for u before u sleep okie...

Moi: B, i am so FAT now... am i still sexy in ur eyes?

Bei: U are always my sexy wife ***Eyes rolling***

Moi: :O(

'Dear God,

Please make all women uglier than me in Andy's eyes... pls help me to be always pretty & sexy in ah bei's eyes.... I pray that Lucas will be tall and handsome and happy and smart and good boy and lovable and easy to teach and healthy and adorable and charming and so so much more of great things that you have want him to be.... Dear God, pls teach me and bei to be a great parent and always have good example for Lucas to look up to.... Pls let us be great parent to Lucas and let us be great lover even after Lucas has arrive....

Thank you GOD for making sandies possible.... love u so much from me, Sally :O)

Amen'

Fought for 2 years

Haiz.... bei 'lost' his bike accident case....

PEOPLE LIED to WIN CASES??

We stand firm and told the truth, people made false statements to win cases!!! After 2 years of lawsuit and end up we still have to pay for bikey 80% repair cost... is so not FAIR...

Daddy's retirement

My daddy (Richard Tiger Ong) has finally retired from MAS after almost working there for 40years, he had his golden hand shake and had his entire life in MAS.... everyone calls him Tiger Ong

4th day after his retirement dad called me
Dad: I am going mad, dont noe wat to do everyday after i wake up from bed... so bored
Me: Huh.... like that how? Will become senile leh.... like miki she is getting old and she always forgot she has eaten and she eats and eats.... Think u better find something to do la...
Dad: can i come stay at ur house 2 days then Ling house 2 days?
Me: SURE! why not... come stay 1 week also can.... hehehe but no birds pls... ur birds very noisy and smelly....
Dad: 2 birds can?
Me: No birds la... u come can liao...
Dad: Throw away ur dogs I give u 1 parrot that will scold vulgarity...
Me: Siao ah, my dog can show vulgarity too leh.... every morning snowball will greet u with his shit and pee.... how abt that?
Haiz, we go out for dinner this weekend okie....
Dad: ya, we go out i am so bored.... u take care okie... papa buy DOM for u...

My poor daddy :O( wonder how will old age be for me...

43 days to seeing Lucas

Mummy Me
I am 55kg already!
I am so fat
Legs started to swell already
no special cravings
Feel thristy always
Hving difficulties breathing well (especially lying down)

Daddy
He is 68kg or 70kg
A hardworking MAN @ work + A GREAT houseHuSbANd
Lotsa Cravings (seems like pregnant!)
getting fatter too...
Always has to listen to mummy's nonsense

Lucas
He is only 1.7kg
Growing bigger and stronger
Kicking mummy alot
Dont like mummy to sleep on her back
Used to like mummy sleeping on left but now seems like right side is better

SnowBall and Miki
Mummy has no time for us now :(
Miki: getting so skinny and hving skin problem
Snowball: forever cant aim his pee pee well at the newspaper & always get beaten by daddy for that:(

Momo, pepper, sugar (bei and my favourite teddy bearS)
Getting so smelly and dirty...
Daddy and mummy cant sleep without US...

Ah bei is Sick

Ah bei has been coughing so badly at night... raffles medical medicine did not work for him, he told me he needs stronger medicine. Bei and family only likes to go Dr Tan at AMK.... wonder if is really Dr Tan medicine that works or is the mind set that Dr Tan can cure him... hahaha... maybe bei should tell Insight to include Dr Tan under their panel of their company's doctor...

I was sick few weeks back, hving fever ... flu and cough... and now is ah bei turn... haiz, the weather is terrible...

So used to aircon after I am preggy, i suggested to bei that we should off aircon to sleep last night since he is sick and is not good to have aircon.... slept at 9plus without aircon, i woke up at 12mn ALL WET and smelly... could easily scoop my sweat out in between my boobs and my melon... WOKE bei up forgetting that he is sick... haha... ended up with aircon till 7am!!!

Haha, he always pretend to be sick so that he can take my drowsy medicine whenever i am sick..

Sal: B, why u are not going up to sleep yet....

Ah bei: I need to drink water, u go up to sleep 1st since u are sick...

Sal: Ok, u come up quick after u are done ok....

Ah bei: **grin** Ok, in awhile... (as i am walking up to the bedroom, bei will take my flu medicine)

(After 10mins...)

Ah bei: Ehh... u not drowsy ah? (bei's eyes getting smaller... and he smile)

Sal: Ooi... u eat my medicine again AH?

Ah bei: No la.... i feel abit flu also.... (smiling away...)

Sal: Kns....

but now he is really sick and the medicine is not working on him... Insight has made him work too hard... reportSsss after reportsSsss... guess is also the late night work that cause him to fall sick... I am so proud of u, ah bei... JIAYOU ba, Lucas will be proud of u too....

50 days to 17 Nov 2009

50 days more...... We will see Lucas SOON :)


Lucas will be added to Happy World of SANDIES....

Having lotsa mixed feelings, alittle anxious... alittle worried.... alittle scare (operation).... lotsa wondering (How Lucas look like?)...

Have i prepare myself? Have Ah bei prepare himself? We are going to be mummy and daddy... we are both 30 years old but seems like we just got married and still enjoying life together... Lucas will be a added JOY to US... hahaha.... okie he will be something new to me and Ah bei... what if we cant handle Lucas? hmmm.... nah, WE CAN HANDLE LUCAS... cos Lucas is going to be very very good good BOY... hehehe...

Things not done:
1) I havent pack my bag for my delivery
2) I havent wash Lucas clothing...
3) I havent pack Lucas baby stuff...
4) I havent read up enuff abt how to handle baby
5) I hv no idea how breast feeding is like....
6) I hv no idea who can help me after 4 months of maternity leave...
7) I hv not got anything for my 1 month confinement
8) ....... many many more....

I am a confuse mummy.... is all 1st timer mummy like me?

60days counting down

60Days before we see U :)

Who: baby Lucas Tan J. L

When: 17 NOV 2009 @ Mount Elizabeth

How: Caesarean Section

sandy and melon's updates

Ah bei
Still a forever loving husband and a great father to be to baby Lucas :)
I am so so proud of ah bei, at times knowing that he is very stress with reports after reports he is still very patient with all the nonsense i hv created just because I am pregnant (hehehe, wont hv this excuses after 17 Nov 09.....)
I am pregnant but ah bei feels more pregnant then preggy me.... he has so much craving that at times i have to give in to him to eat what he wants to eat....

Me
CONSITIPATION BIG TIME....
Had to sit on the toilet bowl for almost 40mins and poo poo got stuck still didnt want to come out... this is worst then giving birth... never felt so terrible before!!! Even pray to God, "PLS RELEASE MY POO POO..." crying and sweating really like a pig..... went to the gynae the next day and was given a SUPER powerful medicine... after i took the medicine, poo poo was like tap water.... "thanked God for the creation of intelligent human that created such medicine"
I am weighting 53.5kg now at my 30weeks and 4 days prenancy and i looked rounder and uglier now... melon is heavy and cause me to have very painful backache :(
thanks to Lucas but mummy still love you alot...
Oh going mad missing all the food that i shldnt eat.... Salmon Sashimi, chilli, Oyster, shell food, liver.....

Baby Lucas
2 weeks ago he was just 940grams (ard 28weeks of my prenancy) and NOW Lucas is weighting 1.4kg!!! And Lucas has turn and position himself ready for birth... But too bad mummy will deliver you via c-section so u will not have to go thru the suffering with mummy...
Woah, he is really growing fast... Is that "growth spurt" ... hahaha....
I cant wait to see u baby... wonderif u look like me or daddy... hopefully u r as tall as daddy and has daddy's eyes and the rest be like mummy... and have lotsa hair like mummy too... hehehe... baby i love u so so much :O)

The Sandies
We are going for a photo shoot soon...
wonder how it will turn out.... hehehe...

Before and after....

Before I had my Melon....

We could still share 1 Sofa ....
Still the shortest among all but there was no tummy...
We could still stay out late.... and be crazy wanna be students...

NOW.... I look more like a SEALION...

Check out the melon in me....

Yes, I m out of shape.... this was taken 3 months ago... can imagine how big my Melon has develop since....

In FACT,

I am very happy that I finally hv this precious melon... it was not easy, bei and I planned it almost for 1 year and before we gave up... GOD gave us this melon seed... *winks* a melon that is a WELCOME to the family :)

Questions I always ask Ah bei:

1: Bei, I love you... do you love me? Can U say "I Love you to me everyday" (I always have this silly tots of... "wat if this is the last chance u can say "I Love you" to your spouse?)

WHEN WAS YOUR LAST TIME U said "I LOVE U" to your hubby? (me... EVERYDAY=)

2: Bei, if baby is out hor... I am still your number 1 leh... baby comes number 2...

(Bei ask me few days ago... "Ur daddy number 1 or I number 1?... hmm... of cos daddy la, he is my daddy and i love him alot leh...then u comes number 1.1 lah... cos i love u also!!! "Bei: OK, then u are my number 2 also!!!!" ..... Me: " NO!!!! Cannot, ok i give u number 0.9 then my dad comes number 1... u are 1 decimal point more than my daddy ok...") That's how silly I can be...

3: Bei, do i look sexy? U still like my sexy melon body? (Hahaha... )

4: Bei, I can see my own toes and also my little friend... can u help me to check if they are ok? (I even hv problem cutting my own toe nails... haha... )

5: Will I still have bird nest to drink every week after I gave birth? (Bei answered: Yes another type of bird nest is whiter but i need your help!! Hahaha... )

I really felt like a princess with melon at this moment of my life.... and i rank my ah bei 10 over 10 FULL MARKS for begin a SUPER nice hubby and melon to be daddy...

I XOXO you so much ah bei :O)..

I will marry u over and over again each day....

My love message to baby

Dear baby,

I am 6 months 4 days preggy...

baby, mummy's back is so pain and my foot is swelling too... I can feel u kicking more often now and I think u got strong legs like daddy... haha, can't wait to see how u look like :) Guess u will look like daddy alot...

I am now weight 52kg (1st time in my life i am in the 50th range) hopefully I will be back to 40th range once u are born...

Your name might be Kaydon but daddy says neighbour's baby is jaydon so we shld name u another name instead... how about Lucus? Baby, u like Lucus? Mummy want your chinese name to have "le - means Happy in chinese" but daddy says too girly... shld hv some manly name so u will be super MAN... mummy thinks u are man enough... cos mummy always talk crappy stuff and dirty stuff... cos u are in me... and i am manly by now... Hahah.... okie baby, mummy will see u soon in 108days....

Loving u so much...

Mummy and Daddy

Preggy me

Hmmm... I guess i am about 4months + pregnant and still trying to figure out about pregnancy... a little confuse about the actual months of pregnancy in fact... I thought i was actually 5 months preggy... but doc says is only 4months plus.... hmmm...

Aunty didnt visit me...
18 March 2009
(keeping finger cross, aunty dun come pls... bb come...)
Sal: Bei, i think my tummy is rounder hor, i like want to vomit leh.... i think is bb leh... no blood this month leh...
Bei: REALLY!!! but hor U every month, every day also want to vomit 1 ley... and ur tummy is always fat loh.... aiya... wait for few more days then say la.... but really then good la...
Sal: ###**~^^#......
....
Found pregnant (using test kit)
19 March 2009(i think... )
Sal: B, i think is really preggy leh... 10days late liao leh....
Bei: ok, later we go and buy test kit....
sal: U buy ok, i shy leh... whahahhha...
bei: Buy 2 la... hahaha... then can really confirm and chop....
(bei bought a cheap cheap 1.. try try 1st... we both didnt expect it was so expensive.... )
SAL: TEST number 1 two lines appear... the 2nd line was very light and cant really confirm leh.... how huh... but i think is bb leh.... very excite hor....
bei: .... i also dun noe leh... i think we buy another kit... this time buy expensive 1....
NEXT day
Sal: TEST number 2 .... +sign appear... I think have liao la... very very clear leh... b,VERY HAPPY leh....
Bei:
Sal: Hey, what kind of expression is that... why no expression....
bei: Of cos happy la... but dun noe hv or not leh.... weekends we go see gynae la... i call my mum 1st....
.........
Gynae check
10days after 19 march
>>> At Dr Lim TB clinic at Mt E.... same test kit was use... again the sign was very light only... Doc says, yes u r pregnant but to confirm that come back on 4 April to check again....
Sal: huh... then i not pregnant ah?
doc: Yes, u can say u are pregnant but we need a confirmation with stronger +sign...

Sal: B, very sien leh... like that is preggy or not preggy...
Andy: dun noe leh... come back again loh... :O(
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Confirm preggy (found heart beat but doc didnt let us hear the heart beat)
4 April 2009 @ 9AM
SAL: B, wake up liao wake up liao... go see bb
bei: Ok, quick go prepare then go le...
>> anyway, both of us didnt know we can request to hear the heart beat... hmmm doc shld hv ask anyway... 1st time parents shld be curious and excited about hearing heart beat of our little creation....
**** EXTREMELY HAPPY me and ah bei.... ******
Andy: finally my sperm win the war leh.....
..........

Was little head, body and limbs forming (this is just so amazing)
2 May 2009
>>> He/She is so active.... we can see that bb is turning and moving non stop... haha... should be like daddy (just so active...)
....
NUH to check that baby is healthy + 1st HEART BEAT heard
20May 2009
>>> 3 tubes of blood taken...
alittle worry about the pain i have in my "left or right" tummy.. cant recall...
30May 2009 (suppose to visit doc on 6 June... but cant wait so change to a earlier appointment)
>>> doc says is wind in my stomach... means eat too much rubbish that cos wind and maybe i didnt shit enough... hahhaha...
....
June, has no gynae visit cos we Kiasu went earlier to double check bb was okie..... June seems a long waiting period before i ca see bb again.... but something exciting found....

1st movement of BB
I felt bb moving.... (wonder was it my own imagination or wat...) but days after days it felt stronger....
There was 1 night, as usual bei fell asleep faster than me...

Sal: B, wake up... feel bb.. i think is bb hand or leg or some parts that is so hard...
bei: **blur blur touching it** ya, is bb... can feel very hard... eh.... dissapear liao leh.... think bb go to bed liao....
Sal: u got feel or not... is bb leh... kick so hard.. think bb angry that i am not sleeping so kick me leh...
bei: orh... ZzzZzzzz....

Waiting for 4 July to come to update on the gender of bb...
>>> My feeling tells me is a Girl.... cos i am still pretty and not ugly... (hahaha)... but sad to say i am getting from S size >>> M size>>> now... L Size PANTIES (ah bei named it Ah ma teh kor)....

sal: B, my panties very tight leh.... very painful... must buy new panties liao....
bei: Aiya, why dun u dun wear panties to work...
Sal: Siao Ah.. like that how can? will catch a cold and people will see my mei mei leh...
bei:
Just cant imaging why ah bei can hv such imagination and suggestion.... that's so my ah bei...

Please Help Feisty Princess Charmaine

Saw this in facebook and my heart sanked.... This little princess Charmaine is only 3years plus and she has been diagnosed with neuroblastoma (4th stage Cancer)... at her age i guess i was running around knowing nothing about what is cancer and what is pain and suffering... there are so much blessing in life that we never know how to cherish and appreciate....

See how pretty and cheerful this little gal is... Why could this happen to such sweet little ones.... go to her blog directly http://ourfeistyprincess.blogspot.com/

When you are at her blog, there are pictures of her after having the chemo and she is still looking so strong and cheerful... doctor has to provide her with morphine to reduce her pain.... even i dont really know her personally, but from the picture you can tell that she is really a brave strong gal.... she was breathing thru a oxygen mask and she even request to have a picture taken with the mask.... i am so proud of you, little Charmaine.... I know God will be there for you :O)

"I pray that Daddy in heaven will take away this terrible monster from this brave strong gal... I pray for strength and painless therapy.. i pray for recovery for little charmaine.... pls heal this little gal and send all your pretty caring angel to her every moment to keep her well again... I pray that charmaine mummy will be strong and have no worries financially.... I pray for help from every source and by word of mouth..... i pray that Charmaine will fight this monster and be up again like any other children in the world.... Amen"

Winning Sperm....

Annoucement of winning the sperm and egg war..... Was wondering when shld i start using the anti stretch mark cream.... so i ask fiona this question over msn...

Moi: Yo, wat brand of anti stratch mark cream u use huh?
Fiona: you mean stretch marks?
Moi: haha... Ya i mean stretch not stratch....
Fiona: hahahahahahahaha....
Fiona: I use palmers
Moi: buy from where huh? Expensive or not?
Fiona: quite, $20+( when to take a picture to show me )

Moi: (Thinking... kns so expensive) when u start to use huh and ot effect meh?
Fiona: I started once i knew i was pregnant... why leh?
Moi: Andy's sperm won the war liao after 9 months of war
Fiona: OMG..... you are pregnant?
Moi: Ehh... i tot i sms u liao
Fiona: NEVER, I AM HAPPY FOR YOU
Moi: y me oso very happy....

In fact i am super happy..... when i knew at 4 weeks i feel like telling the whole world... but u know la... the old wives tales... cannot tell cannot do this cannot eat this and that ..... ok....

After the 2nd confirmation from doctor and was able to heard the heart beat I announce to the whole world... I AM 7 WEEKS PREGNANT !!!!!! at last sperm and egg married each other... ahaha :O)

Ms Swan at ATM

This is really funny.... Whahahaha...

BlessingsSSsss in 2009

2009 started 1 and a half months ago.... Looking back, is a relieved I would say....

Ah bei had found a new job before ending of 2008 and is a bonus as he got a confirmation within 4 months of his new job + assurance that he has gain favour from his bosses (Andy, u learn fast :) I am very proud of my ah bei :) REALLY! Ah bei deserve very much for that credit as he really work very hard for it...

Me... hmmm... just very bless in life recently.... feeling of peace despite the fact that I made a huge decision in life.... a feeling just not easy to discribe... an experience of excitement and happiness.... Just simply very very thankful.....

This song from Chris Tomlin describe how i feel at this present moment of my life...

There is an endless song

Echoes in my soul

I hear the music ring

And though the storms may come

I am holding on

To the rock I cling

How can I keep from singing Your praise

How can I ever say enough

How amazing is Your love

How can I keep from shouting Your name

I know I am loved by the King

And it makes my heart want to sing

I will lift my eyes

In the darkest night

For I know my Savior lives

YouKnowing You'll see me through

And sing the songs You give

I can sing in the troubled times

Sing when I win

I can sing when I lose my step

And fall down again

I can sing 'cause You pick me up

Sing 'cause You're there

I can sing 'cause You hear me, Lord

When I call to You in prayer

I can sing with my last breath

Sing for I know

That I'll sing with the angels

And the saints around the throne

Image of my Godson....

6 months......

Both 7.5 months.....

Is amazing.... i can see my Godson's eyes, nose and lips....

Has a nose of my gf and a lip of daddy....

Cant wait to see my Godson.....

Pregnancy and Sandy

• Recieved a call last month... "coming to my son baby shower bo"


• Recieved a sms last week from a friend.... "Just gave birth to a healthy baby"


• In church, 3 cell friend has given birth recently and 1 pregnant....


• Saw a friend at East Coast... "I am pregnant, and jus did my ROM"


• Received an sms yday from a good friend of mine.... "pls call me when u r free, I am pregnant"


• Received a MSN picture of a scanned baby picture of my very very best friend in JB....


• At work place, 4 jus give birth.... and 1 pregnant.....


• Another friend got shot gun recently and no choice got married.....
  
  lots of cow boys and girls recently.... Niu year is really good for child birth? Or is economic too bad for people to stay out of shopping and start making babies at home?
  
  And i wonder, ever if i have a small sandies... how will life be? Is rather depressing month after month wishing and hoping.... maybe it comes for a reason and maybe is the timing...
  
  Haiz... at times i wonder if the whole world is only jus me and my ah bei will do... how i wish we dont hv to be busy work so hard for lifes ahead... can be quiet painful to see ah bei working so hard and he keeps having bad headache and when he is home he still have to hears me nag and play momo games with me and do house work over the weekends.... bei has really make a good husband so far... haha... and me not so good... cos i hate housework... but i will try to do some during weekdays so when weekends comes ah bei can go out with me and not stay home do house work.... i am glad i have ah bei in life with me... i am enjoying alot with ah bei and i really wish God will continue to bless sandy's life always... even when we are always so noti....

wishing .. and hoping....