Sweet Connie Talbot

Sweet Connie Talbot (She is SO SO CUTE... I want a baby Gal like her)

Western Australia....Just me and my ah bei

April 2008

Caverman wildlife park

The loud "Meh Meh"

This Meh Meh can really "meh" very loud (Guess is as good as shawn Eng's voice) Wah Piangz... like he just swollow a microphone.... scared me when he "MEH MEH"... he is definitely louder than Shawn Eng....
This kangeroo (Very dark... we call him india kangeroo)... he saw my ah bei's pouch and he tot was his mummy and he kept following ah bei... Haha...

See... he is so not camera shy.... jus like me.... how i wish i can bring him home...

and these lying around for us to take pictures with them.... they are all so lazy.... Haha...

Fremantle market

Parking Fines at Fremantle

This cost us AU$30.00 becos of saving $3.00 parking... haha.... task task!!!

Round Hall (Or smthing... cant remember)

Trying to be funny.... if i fall that will be terrible... is a cliff down on my right...

See my ah bei.... he is like my babe... Love him so much... Muacks... baby

Nite Fishing @ Emu

Ah Bei caught a fish.... is really an easy catch.... poor fishy....

Ah Bei happily showing off his "Big fish"....

Blow Hole @ Albany

This is taken at Blow Hole... Haha... but u cant actually see the hole... if u see hole u cant see us.. if u see us u cant see the hole.... so what's the point of taking the hole to show u guys... haha...

Tree Top Walk

This is taken at the bottom of the tree top walk.... didnt really managed t0 catch someone to take pixs for us when we were up at the walk....

(From Left: Angmo and Hippo Chou Chou, Moi and Ah Bei)

Huh... this is taken at the top of the tree top walk.... but again... is so much of BOTH of us and nothing of the scenary... Haha... (Can see the scenary cant see us.. so what's the point.. )

Me and Ah Bei at the Tree top again.... but where is Angmo???

Greenfield Farm Stay

Ah Bei, Dave & Jeanette (Farm owner)and Moi.... (See their face look so rosy and healthy)
Breakfast prepare by Dave and Jeanette... they are just so sweet...

small garden of Greenfield farm stay... is jus peaceful to stay here...

Morning Fishing Trip at Emu

Caught by my ah bei again... this poor fish is called Skippy.... he is super "niam niam" (Means sticky)

Chey Chey Chey.... see what i caught.... my hook got stuck and when i manage to get help from ah bei .... this is what i caught.... see my prawn is at the centre of the starfish... didnt know starfish eat prawns too... Haha... (At the end i threw the starfish back to the ocean.... @ least i saved 1 starfish)

My ah bei showing off his niam niam skippy and him....

Ord Street

This is at Ord Street... this place is build in memory of those royal marines who scarifice in South East Asia and Paific theatre Operation (Is a super huge piece of land loh...)

Sandy's wedding album 02 June 2008

Just Andy and Sally.....

This cheongsum is made by my mum... so nice hor.... but she took very long to sew it cos she is old oredy.... my poor mummy....

This is so not me loh.. i am never so demure.... Wah piangz.... i should talk less and act like this... then more chio leh...

I like this style most actually.... so me and so sweet... Hehehe...

This is my darling frens pups... (dou dou, Zhuzhu and Niu niu).... sad to say Zhuzhu pass away few months after my wedding shoot.. due to old age... dou dou and niu niu is zhuzhu son and daughter...

I love this style too... so sweet....

Brett Dennen (Born in 1979): She's Mine

Born in 1979 in the small town of Oakdale, Calif.
Brett Dennen has evolved from a home-schooled kid to a nationally recognized singer-songwriter.

Sang by my galfren's hubby Michael Cho (Another Great Singer)

Married Life....

To marry, it means the following
1. To be with that person for the rest of your life. Means seeing him every single day, breathing with him and seeing him everyday. ( that was the life most women want, but it doesnt really apply to men....)
2. Living with the person's flaws. Does it really mean to enduring his/her temper, farts, burping, snoring and even some rubbish bullshit habits (sometimes people jus take each other for granted...)
3. Trying to get along with all his friends. Essential to accommodating him so he will feel happy that you click with his friends (word is to try... is not easy when his/her friends doesnt really treasure what we call friendship...)
4. Trying to get along with his family(Essential to accommodating him so he dun feel like the ham in the sandwich.. that's not a problem at all)
5. Sharing your hard earn money for house, car, children etc.( alrite, can it be your money is my money and my money is my money.... )
6. Accommodating to each another by giving and taking (Less then often, is usually taking each other for granted.... life is jus full of challenges)

7. Working out the differences in each another(Compromise and compromise... when will that be... )
And the list goes on.....

Married life doesnt seems to be a bed of roses... doesnt mean it at all....

Ah Bei is my drugs....

I SO miss yOu my ah beI.....
Ah bei is out for duty tonite... nite seems to be so empty and slient without him sitting just beside me playing his PSP or him snoring beside me....

I was in love with him when we got married... just had this feeling that it was right and he should be the person to spend the rest of my life with after knowing him for just barely 6 months...

I guess i am really growing in L-O-V-E with my ah bei so much.... even at times he is still naughty or when he ask for time alone with his friends for activities that i classified as "unhealthy activities" ...

Read a book recently (the art of understanding your mate) and it says women like us always want to have a perfect husband or boyfriend but we never realise that nothing is perfect in this world and husband and boyfriend dont come perfect as well... i do agree that i wanted change in ah bei so much that i tend to tell him to change so many things after marriage... and those things were things that was with him for the past 28 years... truely and might not be so possible that it will happen in a few days or months... guess i jus hv to give ah bei the benefit of doubt and the time and to love ah bei as who he is and for who i have married.....

Was on the phone with ah bei today and i was telling him that i am rushing home from my evening meetings which ends at 9pm to see him and send him goodbye for his duty tonite.... ah bei told me over the phone... "hey, am i your drugs?? Cant do it without?" haha... ya i suddenly realise that i am really so so attached to him that i look forward to spend time with him almost every minute when i am off work.... never was i the kind of person who love to rush home after work... BUT now that i am so into my ah bei life just changed... i just so want to rush home to be with him.... just be with him doing doing is jus so happy.... hmm... i am so missing him now... how i wish he was here beside me....

I fall in L-O-V-E and i am in L-O-V-E with U and i am now grOwing SO In L-O-V-E with U....

Why Do people Cry and What is really promises?

Why do people cry:

1) It could be Disappointment
2) Or it could be tired of Waiting
3) maybe could be loneliness
4) or is rather because we 1st love...
5) not knowing is right or wrong...

What is really a promise?
1) a Broken promise ALWAYS..... a promise that never met.... a promise that wasnt meant to be.... a promise jus to pacify..... a promise that doesnt comes with a trust....

When can we really give a promise and keep to it? Are Promises meant to be broken again and again? Why people jus dont realise how much hurt it may cause to the recipient....

It mAtters Alot... if you dont realise its hurts....

15 steps to stay H-A-P-P-Y...

Was thinking about how to make myself a happier person and i came across this write up by wikihow....

Everyone just wants to be happy. That's why people go on diets, spend too much money for clothes, or suck up to popular people - because they think it will make them happy! Happiness can be a "comfortable-good" or an "excited-good" or a "chilled-out-good" because it has many flavours and faces, depending on whom you are with, or what you are doing. However, if you get to know all different people, you will see what makes the happiest people happy.

1) Change your thought process. If you catch yourself thinking that things aren't going to work out, then think again. Remember that most things work out better than you fear - so imagine that your fears are ungrounded and that success is ahead. Rather than thinking of the problems and getting desperate, imagine the best outcome and then work out what you need to do to make that happen. Follow your "inner guidance system." If the thoughts you are thinking are not giving you a good feeling, then think about something else that will make you feel good in that moment. Monitor your thoughts consistently throughout the day. Sometimes this may not be as easy as you think if you are stuck in a "negative" train of thought and your brain chemicals are getting fired up and forming an "anxiety or anger" pathway. Anxiety, fear and anger patterns can be interrupted by focusing on doing a math problem, counting backwards, counting in odd numbers, doing a sudoku puzzle, etc. - this will dissipate the rush of chemicals that are making you feel bad. Immediately then go back to picturing scenes/remembering things/imagining, planning stuff that makes you feel GOOD.

2) See the world for what it really is. You have friends and family that love you. Learn How to be thankful. Think of all the things you have to be happy about. Relax, calm down, take things slower. No one has everything, and everyone has something of sorrow intermingled with gladness of life. The trick is to make the laughter outweigh the tears. We cannot change the past, but we can enjoy today, and look to the future. But if we are prepared to take credit for the past and accept that everything that happened in our life, good and bad, has made us the person we are - the battle is half won.

3)Lighten up. Don't take yourself too seriously. Stress can cause many mental, physical, and spiritual problems in your life. One of the major causes of stress is worrying about things that are out of your control. Learn to recognize these things and if you can truly do nothing about them, then just let them go. Take time to laugh at yourself and the situations you find yourself in. Laughter is a powerful, positive medicine and the calmer and more peaceful you can take things, the happier your life will be.

4) Be yourself. You can't please everybody. Don't let criticism worry you. Don’t compare yourself to other people – at work or in your personal life. In the first place, no one knows what other people are going through. More importantly, when you compare yourself to other people, you always tend to see yourself on the "short end". So this is never a good or helpful thing for you to do. One way to get in touch with yourself is through journaling. The goal is to open up completely to yourself and learn to be your best friend by knowing that the truth (to yourself) will set you free from fear! Practice self-acceptance no matter what. Never do something you're not comfortable with. You'll respect yourself for sticking to your guns, and that self-respect will make you happy.

5) Make a scheduled time every day for relaxation. This is a good time to go over any therapy that you’re working on. Having a "relaxation" time or a "quiet time" every day strengthens you, allows the stress and tension in your life to evaporate, and keeps you more on a positive, even keel.

6) Get a job you love. If you have a job you hate or dislike, seriously consider changing your job, or even changing careers. Having a job that makes you look forward to your day when you wake up in the morning is critical to a happy, fulfilled life. Making special time to enjoy interests, hobbies, and family, not only makes life happier, but helps us be more productive on the job.

7) Develop a strong relationship with your family. That includes trust. If you are in an abusive family, you must find a way to stop the abuse that may include separation. If you want a stronger relationship with your family, you're going to need to be honest with them. Tell your family about your life and don't insult them - it hurts them just as much as it hurts you to be insulted.

8) Choose the right companion. Get involved with activities that reflect who you are, and get to know people who like the things you do. Don't rule out the Internet as a place to find a significant other, just get to know them over the phone or through a few months of emails before agreeing to a meeting in person.

9) Choose your friends carefully. Nearly everyone needs someone who cares for them and treats them well. If you have friends who are treating you badly, then ditch them and find friends that do care about you. If you can't find any friends like that in your current circumstances, then look elsewhere. If you're feeling sad, there's nothing like going out with your friends to make you feel better. Surround yourself with friends who are positive, encouraging, and helpful. We all need this continuing, positive encouragement to make solid positive progress in life.

10) Do what you can for those less fortunate than yourself. Volunteer at a hospital or be a part of a program, which take care of patients in some way. When you leave the hospital, you will be so much happier knowing that you've done something meaningful, something someone else can appreciate.

11) Wish the best for others and mean it. It is so easy to be jealous and petty and forget to celebrate the good fortune of your coworkers, friends and family.

12) Keep learning. Whether it is a new hobby or a new dance, just keep learning something that interests you. Just find a new interest and go for it!! It will give you something to keep you occupied, and a new outlook on life.

13) Set goals. Live up to them. When you accomplish a goal, it's a great feeling. If you put all your failures down to other people, you put yourself in their power. Take responsibility for when things go wrong in your life.

14) Be healthy. Give your body and mind what it most needs in order to function in an "optimal" way. "Optimal" in this case means being the healthiest you can be, and the most psychologically balanced you can be. Eat a healthy, balanced diet and ensure that you get all the vital vitamins and minerals that your body requires for its optimal biochemical functioning. Supplement your diet with the appropriate vitamins and minerals. Get plenty of exercise. This will prompt the production of the "feel good" hormones that make you feel happy (endorphins). Plus, there are all the other obvious fitness and disease fighting benefits, too numerous to mention here.

15) Strive for long term goals vs. short term satisfaction. It is very easy to gain short term satisfaction, a quick high, a fast relief from your current problems. But it is what it is , a "short term" satisfaction, its effects die out very soon, leaving you again with this empty feeling. Set long term goals, set a goal which takes some time, some thought, some effort to achieve. This will make you continually work towards improving yourself bit by bit and will give you the satisfaction of bringing a permanent change in your life. A permanent revolution.

and in conclusion.... "Happiness is nothing more than good health and a bad memory." - Albert Schweitzer"

Why Mummy Nags...

After begin married I suddenly realise why people nags... or rather why my mum nags so much... and why mummy cries after i ask her stop nagging...



Not that we love nagging or make people's life more terrible to live in... just that people are not listening correctly....



This is jus so sudden and out of no where that i am writing this up... suddenly i felt so mummy and aunty when ah bei ask me to stop nagging...



Reason for me to nag:

1).....

2)....

3)....

4) because i care and i love U



Reason for me NOT to nag:

1) so Ah bei can be happier

2) so Ah bei can love me more

3) so Ah bei can come home without any hesitation

4) so AH Bei knows that he has a happy wife

5) so Ah Bei can love me more

6) so Ah Bei have 1 less problem

7) so Ah bei will look forward to grow Old together with me

8) so Ah bei will love to be with me EVERYDAY...

the before and after family...

My family from young till now..... see the growth... wah piangz.... all become so fat but never grow taller... haha....

My mummy and daddy ( i realise i didnt take much picture with mummy... :( )

Me and my darling daddy..... he is really old liao.... Daddy, jiayou okie....

See little noti princess tammy used to take picture with me but now she hates me.... Again she never smile .... haha..

my poor little boy aka snowball.... used to be very fluffy...

Me and my ah bei (before marriage...)

After marriage.... (both become fatter.. haha...)

Me and my ah pui sister aka Monica aka Ah Chin....

My elder sister aka catherine aka ah leng... (realise oso i didnt take much picture with my elder sister.... hmm there is always a gap btw us.... she has high expectation abt her studies but i dont... so maybe that's is why we are apart... she is was the brightest student in class but me is always the last few... Hate to study and never can understand y she can score so well yet still not happy with her result.... haha... )